Self-Love is Not Selfish….It is Necessity

I have usually heard people saying that “she is self-obsessed” “She is selfish” “She take care of herself”. Its common lines of gossip among females and male too. I actually not understand what’s wrong in it??? It’s very good to love yourself, your body, your soul and your identity. With the help of this blog I am just trying to create awareness that “Self-love is Not Selfish, It is Necessity of Life” and you must understand it deeply. It is one of the step towards happier and peaceful life.

At present situation Self-care is not any kind of selfish act but actually it is strong need of your soul to energize and motivate yourself. But the sad truth is that many of the people make fun of it and criticize the person doing so. The most interesting thing is that only those people chatter who can’t able to do so. Actually they are so innocent that they don’t have any idea that there is great difference between self-love and selfishness. 

Influence of Self-Love 

Great Scholar Swami Vivekananda had told that “you cannot believe in God until you believe yourself”. In a similar manner “you cannot love others until you love yourself”. So, it’s very important to love yourself as self-love is not selfish and it can trigger the achievement levels of any women. Self-care makes you more responsible and loving person. It is unconditional love to your own identity and existence which helps you to figure out positive and negative aspects within yourself. Here I am discussing some points that let you understand how self-love develops love and respect for others too.  

• Self-love Spreads Love and Positivity: Self-love is not selfish actually it is giving some time to oneself. It is way of creating love and happiness within you without expecting from others. It is just being happy for yourself by creating charming environment for yourself. It is completely true that if you will be condemned and happy then only able to spread love and happiness around yourself. Any women can spread love and positivity in her family and society as well if she is positive and love herself.

• Loving yourself is Inspiring: It develops self-esteem and regard to your own identity and existence. When you start loving yourself you will emphasize on your positive traits and passions which will create a new individual within you. Doing this will make you an inspiration for others too.

• It develops power: When you started to love yourself you will be able to find out your weakness and strengths and can work upon such traits. Doing this develop your character and makes you more powerful. 

• Self-love is not selfish but it develops unconditional love for others: When you love and care for yourself there will be no condition but only to just take care of yourself. Doing this everytime not only develops caring attitude for oneself but also makes you much better person. It actually creates a habit of unconditional love and care for others too. 

So, guys don’t get confuse between self-love, self-esteem and selfishness. All terms looks similar but actually different. It definitely brings difference in your life. So, forget the world and keep loving yourself to spread love and positivity around yourself.

Keep reading my blog and always wear smile on your face. :-)

Also Read: How to Revitalize Yourself When You Feel Low