Parenting Tips on How to Raise Confident Child

In recent times, cases of anxiety, depression and suicide are much seen among youngsters and even in child. They fail to handle the worst situations in their lives and take negative steps. Do u ever think why it is happening? One of the major cause is lack of self-confidence, courage and patience. Yes, if as a mother/ father you raise a confident child you will be able to minimize such incidents in your family and society as well. So, today I am going to share my ideas about how to raise confident child.

Few Ideas on How to Raise Confident Child

• Stop Spoon Feeding: Many of the parents do spoon feeding with their kid so as to show their love and affection. Actually, parents become overprotective and involve in all tasks to make it easier for their kid. But it will develop dependency in your kid and it becomes difficult to raise confidence. 

• Develop Curiosity: Teach your kid new things everyday by storytelling, games, inspirational talks, giving them exciting tasks etc. It will make them curious each and every day and build confidence to do something new.

• Let Your Child Face Challenges: Life is not so easy; sometimes good sometimes bad. It is challenge and you have to teach your child to face the challenge happily. Prepare them to deal with adversity alone in a strong manner. Right from childhood start giving some responsibility and let them handle it in their own manner.

• Encouragement and Appreciation: Encouragement develops perseverance and it finally leads to success. Every parent should encourage the child on all small tasks performed by them. They should help them to follow their passion and always appreciate to go further. Even if your kid is not able to do things or become unsuccessful in any task you should try to kill the feeling of failure and give an applaud that “My child you can do it”, “you are talented enough” “No matter you fail, just keep on trying you will get success soon” “I believe in you, you are very strong and confident”. Saying such lines to your kid make them feel confident and helps you to raise confident child. But some parents starts saying “what you have done, is it the way to do”? “You can’t do it, just leave”? “You are good for nothing” etc. This is really very miserable if parents are treating their child in this manner.

Tips to Separate Personal Life from Professional Life

In 21st century, society has undergone many changes. Thoughts of people are changing, they are talking about women empowerment, entrepreneurship and many more issues. And it’s completely true that now females has broken all barriers to largely occupy the corporate world and several other sectors. Women are giving her best to every spheres of personal and professional life. But at the same time it’s not so easy to create a balance between both.

Sometimes it becomes problematic to manage personal as well as professional life in a perfect manner especially for women folk. They have to undergo many issues to create perfect work/life balance. At times many of the women also fails to do so. But don’t worry, take a chill pill and follow some measures to create perfect balance between your personal and professional life. 

How to Separate Personal Life from Professional Life?

It is very important to separate work and personal life in order to avoid many issues and maintain good physical and mental health. Now it’s not tough task to separate personal life from professional life. It all becomes easy due to changed work pattern and technological advancements. 

1. Figure out what is creating an imbalance work/life. Like if you are doing overtime ignoring your personal health, family and friends. Handling official issues at home without taking proper rest and vacations then it’s time to stop all these habits. Try to fix the issue before it disturb your mental peace and happiness.

2. Add Punctuality in your Habit: Always attend and leave office at time unless some urgent work is not there. It is very easy way to create a perfect separation between personal and professional life. 

3. Learn to Say No: It is also necessary that when to say no to your professional as well as personal call requests. If you are not willing to perform unreasonable work requests beyond your boundaries then it’s good to refuse it. At the same time avoid personal meets and private issues discussion at workplace as much as possible.

Self-Love is Not Selfish….It is Necessity

I have usually heard people saying that “she is self-obsessed” “She is selfish” “She take care of herself”. Its common lines of gossip among females and male too. I actually not understand what’s wrong in it??? It’s very good to love yourself, your body, your soul and your identity. With the help of this blog I am just trying to create awareness that “Self-love is Not Selfish, It is Necessity of Life” and you must understand it deeply. It is one of the step towards happier and peaceful life.

At present situation Self-care is not any kind of selfish act but actually it is strong need of your soul to energize and motivate yourself. But the sad truth is that many of the people make fun of it and criticize the person doing so. The most interesting thing is that only those people chatter who can’t able to do so. Actually they are so innocent that they don’t have any idea that there is great difference between self-love and selfishness. 

Influence of Self-Love 

Great Scholar Swami Vivekananda had told that “you cannot believe in God until you believe yourself”. In a similar manner “you cannot love others until you love yourself”. So, it’s very important to love yourself as self-love is not selfish and it can trigger the achievement levels of any women. Self-care makes you more responsible and loving person. It is unconditional love to your own identity and existence which helps you to figure out positive and negative aspects within yourself. Here I am discussing some points that let you understand how self-love develops love and respect for others too.  

• Self-love Spreads Love and Positivity: Self-love is not selfish actually it is giving some time to oneself. It is way of creating love and happiness within you without expecting from others. It is just being happy for yourself by creating charming environment for yourself. It is completely true that if you will be condemned and happy then only able to spread love and happiness around yourself. Any women can spread love and positivity in her family and society as well if she is positive and love herself.

Do we Really Need to Celebrate Mother’s Day???

From the past few years, people are much aware about special days like Mother’s day, Father’s Day, Friendship Day etc. However, it’s really exceptional days celebrated all over the world to show one’s love towards these relations. But mother and father is not a relation they are actually a lifeline, heartbeat or you can say you can’t expect your life without them. There is no single day without parents. So, here question arises in my mind that “do we need to celebrate Mother’s Day?”. 

Before going deep into this topic some of the quotes are flashing in my mind. Let us discuss certain beautiful heart-warming quotes expressed for Mother which I really like and want to discuss with you all.

“All that I am and hope to be, I owe to my angel mother” - Abraham Lincoln

“It may be possible to gild pure gold but who can make his mother more beautiful?” –Mahatma Gandhi

 “Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children.” —William Makepeace Thackeray

“Mother is the heartbeat in the home; and without her, there seems to be no heart throb.” —Leroy Brownlow

If I will continue this list of quotes on mother it will never get completed as she is incomparable and most precious gift of God given to all of us. No love & care is as pure and true as mother’s love. She do lots of adjustments and sacrifices to make us happy and brighten our life. She forgets her liking, dreams, career, and many more things while bringing up the child. It’s not wrong to say that she completely forgets herself for the sake of her children. So, asking that “do we really need to celebrate Mother’s Day? Is quite silly question.

According to me, Mother and father both are the example of presence of God on Earth. So, do you remember God on any special day??? I think most of the people will answer “NO”. It is possible that you worship God on special day but presence is always there in your mind and so are the parents. As I think every day is Mother’s Day or Father’s Day because you can’t be able to see a single day of your life if your parents won’t have bring you in this world. So, be thankful and show gratitude to your parents everyday not only this special day. 

There is nothing wrong in Mother’s Day celebration. It’s very good to show affection and respect to your mother and make her feel special on Mother’s Day. But the question is “Do we just celebrate it or really mean it? It’s very miserable that in today’s scenario many of the children are just doing it in fashion. They are just celebrating this day to update their social status. Are you also one of those individuals? If yes, then it’s really sad and hopeless.